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Self-Defense For Indie Authors #2: How To Identify And Deal With Negging

Self-Defense for Indie Authors #2: How to Identify and Deal with Negging

The growth of the self-publishing industry has made it a prime target for parasites and predators. Self-Defense for Indie Authors teaches you to recognize and counter the deceptive tactics used to separate indie authors from their money.

“Negging” — a term coined by and popularized by the unsavory seduction community — is a tactic which attempts to tear down the target’s self-esteem with insults masked as compliments.

sleazy pick-up artist in 70s leisure suit

Heyyy, you’re lookin’ pretty fine… for an indie author.
[Credit: iStockPhoto]

For example, a would-be Lothario might slither up to a woman and strike up a conversation. “You have such a pretty face. It’s a shame to hide it behind all that hair.”

With a compliment from the left hand and a subtle slap from the right, the victim may now be thinking, “What’s wrong with my hair?” And that’s the ultimate goal of negging: to break down the target’s defenses by eroding their confidence and instilling doubt. To lower their sense of self-worth. It’s the kind of cruel, cynical psychological warfare which the seduction community prides themselves on.

Needless to say, the kind of manipulative sewage swimmer who employs those tactics against you is not someone you ever want to enter into a relationship with.

Now these techniques have found their way into the arsenals of questionable self-publishing services. You don’t want to enter into a business relationship with that kind of predator, either.

It’s increasingly common to find anti-indie rhetoric laced through the marketing materials of assisted publishers who, perversely, target indie authors. These negging pitches start out with encouraging comments about the author’s worth, then attack their insecurities with barbs like these:

  • “If your first book isn’t a success, you can forget about a career in writing.”
  • “[W]ithout a high-end publisher to market and distribute your book, you are no longer considered to be a credible author…”
  • “Your coordinator will guide you down the path from mere ‘writer’ to published author.”

In isolation these comments drip contempt, but that hostility is less obvious when sandwiched between praise and flattery. Fortunately, when you’re attuned to this technique, you’re less likely to let it slide and more likely to recognize the attack for what it is.

A good seller empowers you to make smart decisions; a predatory seller works to undermine your confidence and push you into a deal.

Learn to recognize negging. A company that uses it is trying to manipulate you into a vulnerable position. Send them packing, and find a reputable service provider that respects you.

OVER TO YOU
Have you ever encountered this tactic? How did you respond? Let us know in the comments below.

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  1. I encounter Negging continuously, especially from a company that wants me to published with them. I have told them numerous times I am not interested in working with them, but they simply don’t get it. Now when they call, I merely tell them I am not writing anymore.

  2. I used to do antiquing, buying and selling old things at flea markets. The antique dealers would do this–tear down something in order to get me to sell it to them at a lower price, so they could turn around and sell it for what I was asking for it. This tactic made me so mad–I was less inclined to barter with them, not more!

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John Doppler

From the sunny California beaches where he washed ashore in 2008, John Doppler scrawls tales of science fiction, urban fantasy, and horror -- and investigates self-publishing services as the Alliance of Independent Authors's Watchdog. John relishes helping authors turn new opportunities into their bread and butter and offers terrific resources for indie authors at Words on Words. He shares his lifelong passion for all things weird and wonderful on The John Doppler Effect.

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